"Not only arrogant, but also conceited. She hails from a poor family. His father has been earning his livelihood, by working as a low-paid accountant in a shop. Till recently, her husband had also been struggling, with his business not doing well. But, suddenly he had a stroke of luck and his business took off. He has become wealthy now. After that, this woman started behaving as if she was born rich."
Priya found the conversation distracting. But there was no place in her house, where she could sit quietly, away from the talk. She also enjoyed the distraction, since it gave her some relief from the boredom of the homework.
Sarada left after some time.
"Come in, aunty!" said Priya.
"Oh, Thangam! Welcome! Nowadays, you come to my house only rarely" said Valli and took Thangam inside.
Priya was distracted again, this time by the conversation between Valli and Thangam, making it difficult for her to concentrate on her homework.
"Just now, I was speaking to Sarada about you. I was telling her, 'We can't find another humble person like Thangam. She brought luck to her husband. It was only after marrying her that there was a turnaround in the fortunes of his business. They are now one of the wealthiest families in the town. But, both the husband and wife are so humble, kind and helpful.'"
"We are like we always were in the past. What is remarkable about it?" replied Thangam. Priya had to guess some of the words, Thangam's voice being so low.
"Everyone in our town appreciates the way you take care of your parents-in-law. You look after them so nicely. You won't allow them to do any work. You take care to see that they are comfortable and happy.Your modesty is exemplary. Even women with a little education act with an air of superiority. But, in spite of having a college education, you are modest and humble, like a village girl" said Valli.
Thangam left after a while.
After Thangam had left, Priya asked her mother, "Mom! Just a few minutes back, while conversing with Sarada aunty, you spoke ill of Thangam aunty. But, while talking to Thangam aunty, you praised her!"
"You can't say bad things about a person to the person's face. Courtesy requires that we say good things about a person, while conversing with that person" said Valli.
"Then, why should you speak ill of a person behind the person's back? You could have refrained from saying anything, whether good or bad about Thangam aunty to Sarada aunty. After all, you have been having a good relationship with Thangam aunty. In such a case, is it not wrong to speak badly about her to others?" asked Priya.
Section 1
The Path of Virtue
Refraining From Backbiting
puRan azhI poyththu nagai.
Verse 181
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